Dating a girl who just broke up
But I will caution that if you start dating him only two weeks after he broke up with a girlfriend of 10 months, you run several risks: 1) You risk that instead of working things out in his mind and making peace with the breakup, he will retreat from thinking about his stuff and perpetually be wrestling with his thoughts and unresolved issues.As long as you are in the relationship with him, he will be able to distract himself from dealing with the issues he really needs to deal with. When a guy hasn’t had a good amount of time to work out his issues, it’s very likely that he’ll go to the ex-girlfriend for one reason or another.I thought about your situation and there are a few things I wanted to touch on in my response.First, you mentioned that he was very stressed after having broken up his relationship of 10 months a couple of weeks ago.The bulk of the healing happened within the first month and a half (and probably would have happened quickly if I had just acknowledged that I needed time to work everything out in my head and lifestyle.) My point in all of this is that it’s up to the guy to work his issues out.There’s no way to shortcut this for him or for you – he needs to do it himself.Now it’s been two days and I’ve heard nothing from him.I really like this guy and feel there’s a connection, but I’m afraid that if I pursue this I’m going to end up being the rebound no matter what I do.
If something looks like it’s going to explode, it’s good to stand far away.
Please understand this is not a foolproof plan, but if you have any chance at all, this can certainly improve it.
When it comes to women and building a relationship with them, you need to pay attention and get in tune with their emotions.
She may be angry, hurt, or express remorse for the loss of the previous relationship. When dealing with a girl who you want to become your girlfriend, you will need to do certain things in order to turn the friendship into something more.
At the right time, you can convince her that you're the person she's been looking for all along. Now that you have helped her through her time of need, you will need to focus on "sealing the deal" with her in order to make her your girlfriend.